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Marriage Hits an All-Time Low

photo by Elizabeth Messina

According to a study from the Pew Center, the number of married people in this the U.S. has hit a low point.

 

51% of all adults are now married. This figure is down from 72% in 1960. And the median age at which people are getting married is rising (brides, 26.5, grooms, 28.7).

 

Researchers cannot pinpoint why this is happening—and it’s occurring across all developed nations. Perhaps younger people have more options today.

 

Let’s take a scenario. You’re a guy and you have spent countless hours at the Top 5 Banker Bars in NYC—and you still can’t find a date. One day your boss offers you a position in London. All of a sudden you have a whole new set of opportunities—career, love and even bars (check out the top 5 Banker Bars in London) to visit. The notion of settling down goes by the wayside.

 

But whether you have chosen to be married, have just gotten engaged or are already married—know, the institution of marriage is a work in constant progress. And it is good to keep fine-tuning it—on a daily basis.

 

To that end, read: Marriage: 11 Questions Before “I Do”.

 

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Taking Risks and Marriage

Leave it to the Wall Street Journal to look at the business side of marital bickering.

 

In an interesting account of business and marriage, the author equates arguing to risk taking. Why? It’s risky, in some ways, to argue. You risk getting upset. You risk getting into a fight so big that someone throws their soup bowl at you.

 

In an experiment the author tries arguing, risk taking, with her spouse. And in the process, she realizes how arguing can be productive and creates-not a raging screaming match- but rather a rational win-win for both parties. It’s a good lesson in how to fight fair, and win.

 

Read here: Is Fighting With a Spouse a Sign of Failure?

 

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